Career Green Beret Army who was also able to balance both and be Mr..Mom home a lot raising my 3 s...got on a local Police Dep.t (and I don't even like Cops...but it was a good job, paid the bills and also allowed me to continue as Mr.Mom....while on PD I also stayed in an Special Forces Reserve or SF Guard Unit...my life changes when those planes hit the towers...watched it live with wife/now ex...pulled inti my driveway ...when that 2nd tower came down I looked at her and said :"ya know I'm going...not if.....but .when My Unit 20th SF along with our Bn and my Company were the 2nd Special Forces soldiers into Afghanistan summer 02-03 ...said good by to my 3 ren before leaving the states never expecting to see them again...it just made my job simple...once I said good by...my Tour02-03 and 6 years of hell after to long to go into....My 1st grand Jace came along in 2008 and brought me back from the dead.....He's 7 now his sister 5 and another grand 15 months and grand 14 months...so insteada Mr Mom...I'm Bamba %